Men Of Integrity

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Key Bible Verse: So think clearly and exercise self-control (1 Peter 1:13). Bonus Reading: 1 Peter 1:13-19

When Karen and I got married, we set a guideline. Since eating together can be intimate, we said we wouldn't eat alone with someone of the opposite sex unless it was either truly necessary for work—which this wasn't—or we gave our spouse advanced notice—which I didn't.

During the week our project groups met daily, and I spent a lot of time talking with Becky. I was thinking, Maybe I shouldn't be doing that. But we're friends, there's nothing wrong with talking.
The last night of the course there was a dance. I remember thinking, I wonder if I should ask her to dance with me. That probably wouldn't be a good idea. But if I don't she'll perceive me as rude. See how sexual temptation was surrounding me with a cone of delusion?

What kept me on the safe side of the line, even though my toes were right up to it, were two people with whom I have honest relationships: my wife and my friend Tim Jones. I knew they were going to ask me how the course went. I wasn't going to be able to bluff them. When I told Karen about this, it was a hard conversation for her; it was a hard for me too. But accountability is what saves you.

—Kevin Miller in Preaching Today

My Response: Who do I have—not condemning, but firm—to walk through situations like this with me?